PARENTING

SOME OF YOU MAY ALREADY KNOW THAT I HAVE ALOT OF KIDS. ( LAUGHING)   THEIR AGES ARE 20, 18, 17, 13, 13....ITS NEVER A DULL MOMENT...YOU HAVE MOMENTS WHEN YOUR CHILDREN ARE OBEDIENT AND THEN THEY ARE DISOBEDIENT.   MOMENTS WHEN THEY ARE ON POINT AND OTHER MOMENTS THEY ARE NOT....

MY OLDEST WAS IN COLLEGE DUE TO HIS NON PARTICIPATORY INVOLVEMENT WE ARE PREPARING FOR HIM TO GO IN THE MILITARY...OUR AGREEMENT WAS IF YOU DON'T WANT TO TO GO TO SCHOOL THEN MILITARY IT IS... NOW, ACCORDING TO THE MILITARY HE HAS TO LOSE WEIGHT...IF HE DOESN'T LOSE THE WEIGHT THEN ME AND MY HUSBAND HAS DECIDED SINCE HE'S WORKING HE NEEDS TO FIND HIM AN APARTMENT AND BE ON HIS OWN..

MY ONLY DAUGHTER IS ON HER WAY TO COLLEGE...NOW HONESTLY I WISH SHE WOULD STAY HOME BUT I KNOW THAT SHE AT LEAST NEED TO TASTE BEING AWAY FROM HOME...

MY MIDDLE SON IS AN  UPCOMING SENIOR AND HE HAS A SUMMER JOB..tHIS SON IS TIGHT WITH HIS MONEY AND HE CONSTANTLY TELLS HIS OLDER BROTHER THAT ONCE HE GOES AWAY TO COLLEGE HE ISN'T COMING BACK..

LASTLY, MY TWINS ALWAYS KEEP ME BUSY...THEY ARE ALWAYS PLAYFUL AND BUSY...  THEY KEEP ME BUSY.


ALL IN ALL  I LOVE ALL MY CHILDREN BUT I HAVE TO TREAT THEM DIFFERENT BECAUSE EACH ONE HAS DIFFERENT NEEDS AND THEY ARE AT DIFFERENT PLACES IN THEIR LIFE...ITS NO RULE BOOK TO PARENTING.   I USED VARIOUS METHODS SOME WORKED AND SOME DIDN'T... THE ONE METHOD THAT WILL NEVER GO OUT OF STYLE IS PRAYING.   SOMETIMES CUSSING, FUSSING, SPANKING, AND PUNISHING DOESN'T WORK BUT ONE THING THAT REALLY WORKED FOR ME IS " PRAYING" ...HONESTLY, I KNOW I SHOULD HAVE PRAYED MORE THAN THE OTHER..